Next Meeting - Nov 15, 2009

"The Music in Our Lives ...
and why we are Thankful"

The men of Perfect Harmony Men's Chorus will share their stories about the importance of a music community. Don't be surprised if they break into singing!

IT'S TIME TO PAY YOUR DUES!

Remember when PFLAG was there for you, and help us make sure we are still there when others need us. Even volunteer organizations need funds to operate.

PFLAG memberships are now due. Please send $40 per couple/$30 for single to our treasurer, Karen Baker at 3634 Graham Paige Rd. Cottage Grove, WI 53527 prior to Sept. 27, 2009. Or you may hand them to her at the September 20th PFLAG meeting. Additional donations are welcome and encouraged, as it is how we continue to operate!

Even if you never come to a meeting....even if you never volunteer for anything....even if you never vote or want to be on the board...even if you don't even read our newsletters etc.... Please consider sending a few coins to us for our work.

http://pflag-madison.org/MembershipForm.pdf

OR, if you can't afford membership, send a reduced amount.. Or just call me up and say, "How can I help? ". We'll put you to work for the cause of equality for all.


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Farmers’ Market

Thanks so much to everyone who did some market sitting this year (especially Tom and Seiko), and to Jo and Joe who carried the table back and forth nearly every Saturday. We'll be out again in the spring, so let Kay Heggestad know if you are interested in doing some sitting next spring and summer.

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Updating our Image

We're working on a new banner and table for the Market table, as well as new brochures. A million thanks to Casey Garhart, who is chairing both committees. If you have any brilliant suggestions for either (banner & table or brochures), please send your ideas to her.

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From Fair Wisconsin

Wisconsin Supreme Court Rejects Case Seeing to Strip Away Domestic Partnership Protections: Decision ensures domestic partnership protections for over 15,000 Wisconsin same-sex couples.
http://fairwisconsin.blogspot.com/2009/11/wisconsin-supreme-court-rejects-case.html

The Council for Global Equality joined Fair Wisconsin and Heartland Alliance for Human Needs & Human Rights in awarding Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin the first-ever Global Equality Leadership Award.
http://fairwisconsin.blogspot.com/2009/10/inaugural-global-equality-leadership.html

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New DVD in Madison PFLAG Library

Anyone and Everyone‏

57 minute color DVD from IronZeal films
Reviewed by Harriet Bruyn, who found it to be very good. (The following reviews are taken from the disc container.)

"Connected by having a son or daughter who is gay, parents across the country discuss their experiences in the documentary Anyone and Everyone."

"In this presentation, filmmaker Susan Polis Schutz depicts families from all walks of life. Individuals from such diverse origins as Japanese, Bolivian, and Cherokee; as well as religions such as mormon [sic], catholic [sic], hindus [sic] and others share intimate accounts of how their children revealed that they're homosexual and discuss their responses. The parents also talk about struggling with the pain their sons and daughters have dealt with, such as not being accepted by relatives and/or friends and being ostracized by religious congregations."

"...a moving documentary of American families' most heart-wrenching and heartwarming moments." --Keith York, KPBS Director of TV Programming

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Gay Marriage and Domestic Partnerships

Click here to see where other states stand on gay marriage.

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American Airlines’ Deal for PFLAG

Planning a vacation? Fly on American Airlines and support the preferred airline of PFLAG National. PFLAG national staff gets free miles (and you do NOT lose any bonus miles).
When booking on www.AA.com, follow these instructions:
Step One - Choose your travel dates and your best flight option.
Step Two - Login. (If you have an AAdvantage Number and a password, key it in. If not, click "continue" without logging in.)
Step Three - Confirm your itinerary and complete passenger details. LAST STEP - Important! - Key in PFLAG's Business ExtrAA Account Number (527590).

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McConkey v. Van Hollen Oral Arguments

On Nov. 3 the Wisconsin Supreme Court heard oral arguments in the McConkey v. Van Hollen court case challenging the validity of the 2006 constitutional amendment banning marriage equality.
http://fairwisconsin.blogspot.com/2009/11/mcconkey-oral-arguments.html

Kay Heggestad's Eye-witness Report:

Oral arguments were heard in the Wisconsin Supreme Court on 11/3/09 regarding the legality of the November 2006 amendment that stated that a marriage only may be between one woman and one man AND that anything that was similar to a marriage between unmarried persons would not be legal in Wisconsin. (This was not the exact language.)

Lester Pines was the attorney representing Mr. Bill McConkey, the Oshkosh professor who started these proceedings in 2007. Mr. Pines made the argument that the two ideas were not the same and thus the voters might have voted "yes" to the ban on same sex marriage but might have voted "no" on the ban against allowing legal rights that might be similar to marriage, e.g. civil unions. Wisconsin has a statute against two different ideas being placed in the same amendment. The other attorney said, "Nah Unh".

Several PFLAGERS attended and a few from Fair Wisconsin. Ms. Apling was there, as well. One of the younger attendees tried to hold up a small sign saying, "Gay Marriage Now", but was not allowed to display it. The proceedings lasted about 90 minutes with the justices asking pertinent questions. The justices will deliberate on this topic and hand down a decision at a very indefinite time. They could give a decision soon, or a year from now, but will most likely be announcing the decision in the spring. If they decide in favor of McConkey, then the amendment would be struck down. Same sex marriage would still not be legal in Wisconsin but the door would be open for our legislators to introduce the idea of same sex marriage again.

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From National PFLAG

PFLAG Praises Senate Passage of Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act and Celebrates a Long Overdue Victory Paving the Way for Full LGBT Equality

New hate crimes bill targets violence against LGBT people, provides greater assistance in prosecuting offenders; one of several important legislative issues that aim to end discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. For more on this story...

From Jody Huckabee, PFLAG Executive Director:
Thanks to you and thousands of other dedicated activists, today marks a historic event for our LGBT loved ones, as President Obama has signed into law the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act. I was proud to represent you at the White House earlier today to mark the first federal law ever that includes sexual orientation and gender identity as protected categories.

This law represents a victory more than ten years in the making, and would never have happened without the commitment, outreach, and support of PFLAG members and friends like you, who are at the heart of all that we do. Along with Judy, Dennis, and Logan Shepard, many other families were on hand at the signing to remember the LGBT loved ones who inspired this law and to stand together against violence motivated by hate.

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Prominent United Methodist Minister Elected to National Board of Directors of PFLAG

PFLAG National—Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays—is pleased to announce that the Reverend Gilbert H. Caldwell of Asbury Park, N.J., has been elected to its national Board of Directors. Caldwell, a straight, African-American minister (retired) in the United Methodist Church, will focus his work with PFLAG on outreach to faith communities and to LGBT people and their families in the African-American community. For more on this story...

 

National PFLAG Update: November, 2009

This week we celebrate hard-won victories in Washington and Kalamazoo, Mich., where voters went to polls to stand up for the rights of our LGBT loved ones. PFLAG chapters in these areas showed tremendous capacity to mobilize and engage voters to support equality. Reaffirming domestic partnership rights and adding non-discrimination protections for gay and transgender people were the right things to do, and we should be proud of the role each of us played in achieving these wins.

As we know, though, it is not easy to cheer our successes when we have felt yet another painful loss, as voters in Maine repealed a law that legalized same-sex marriages in the state. This result is especially cruel given the strong, smart campaign for equality that drew support from LGBT people and straight allies across the country. We fought hard in Maine, and we will continue to fight until we achieve equality there and in every other state, city, and town in the country.

For more on these stories:
Washington referendum
Employee Non-discrimination Act
Kalamazoo Votes for Fair Employment

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National PFLAG Blog

Kay suggests that you might find the national PFLAG blog interesting and worthwhile: www.pflagblog.blogspot.com

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